Within the first week he met many people, and made many new friends. He was already proving his mother wrong, he thought. He mentioned to his new group of friends that he was very excited for this new adventure in his life, and had no fears at all. They were all shocked, seeing as they all had at least one fear when it came to college. His first friend asked him how he did not fear anatomy, as it was the worst class of all. It was terribly hard, and would take up every second of his life, but the boy was still not afraid of the challenge.
He wasn’t afraid losing touch with his old friends either, as another friend had mentioned. He knew that even if he did not talk to his old friends as much, they would never lose their special friendship forged over the past four years.
Over the next several months the boy faced many new situations, some good and some bad. He kept a positive attitude throughout them all, and was excelling at this new college thing. He had joined the best fraternity, survived pledge-ship, was making an A in anatomy (literally unheard of!), and had plenty of great new friends! Nothing fazed this kid.
…..That is until one night at a party. It was his first night that he was allowed to talk to girls (that was a no-no when he was a pledge). In his mind it was no big deal. He had figured out everything else having to do with college life, and this was just another adventure, or so he thought.
The night was turning out pretty well. The boy was having fun with his friends as usual until he saw the prettiest girl walk into the room. How had they never crossed paths before? She was beautiful! His friends noticed him staring, and started teasing him and telling him to go talk to her. The boy had never been so nervous or afraid in his life, and it took a full ten minutes for his friends to convince him to go say hi. Eventually he went over, shakily, to start a conversation. They talked all night, and made a date for the next evening.
Affection By Juliana Coutinho |
Over the next month the boy got to know this beautiful girl, and asked her to be his girlfriend. Eventually it was time for him to go home for Christmas break. Now it was his mother’s turn to be excited! She embraced him for five minutes until he finally had had enough and wiggled his way out of her arms. He told
her how great everything was, and also admitted his one fear to her. She was so happy that everything had gone well for her son, and even a little happy that he faced some fear that semester.
Author’s Note: This story came from a Turkish story where a little boy sees his mother experience fear. He was very confused when he saw her reaction to what she was afraid of, and did not understand why she wanted to lock the door. He then sets off to find this so called fear, but cannot find it anywhere. There are three different groups he encounters, and each tries to give him a task that will induce fear. Finally he comes to a beautiful castle, which he enters without a second thought. A woman there then feeds him dinner, but when he lifts the cover to the plate a bird flies out and scares him. I adapted this story to a more applicable situation. I wanted it to be able to relate to the fears people have now. I thought of a very stressful situation for many people, which is change. When I started college I remember having a lot of fears going in, so this boy having none would be weird to many people who have fears of their own. I also wanted to show that sometimes it can be the small things that are the scariest, which is where talking to the girl came in.
This is a really good story! I enjoyed reading it because I think its something all college kids can relate to, especially the beginning when you describe how excited the boy was to leave for college and how worried his mom was about him. I think 99% of college students can certainly relate to that as my mom was worried about me despite me being from norman and only moving to OU and being only 10 minutes away from her. I also like the part about knowing he would always be friends with the friends he was leaving behind. Everyone has those friends that they don't see or talk to for months or even years, but when they do see each other, its like nothing has changed! Awesome story!
ReplyDeleteAwesome story! I wish I had this much positivity coming into college. One thing that makes this story unrealistic (other than the A in anatomy) is that freshman fraternity boys are not looking for relationships haha but I really do enjoy that he found someone! Having no fears would be crazy awesome, but we all have them! Moms probably do worry a lot more than the typical college boy, and for good reason. If I had a son who was that confident I would probably be comfortable and less worried sending him off to college. This was a great story! Good job.
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